Darshana Avila


Darshana Avila

Somatic Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Expert

Darshana Avila is nurturing a culture of Erotic Wholeness as an internationally recognized speaker, coach and facilitator, known by many for her contributions to Netflix’s groundbreaking series Sex, Love & goop. She supports women and couples in exploring and reshaping their relationships to intimacy, sex and eroticism. She created the Map of Erotic Wholeness as a path to personal liberation in service to our collective sexual liberation.

Darshana believes “we are erotic by nature,” and is dedicated to helping people feel truly at home in their bodies, at ease with their sexuality and in alignment with their hearts. Her unique style of somatic sex and intimacy coaching weaves together a trauma-informed, nature-based, justice-oriented approach, inviting more presence, pleasure and passion into the lives and relationships of those she guides.

Erotic Wholeness is a whole-self, highly relational approach to healing and thriving in the realms of sex, intimacy, and relationships. Whether you are seeking to unwind the imprints of trauma, bring greater skill and depth into your most treasured relationships or expand your sense of confidence and capacity for pleasure, you will be well served here.


  • Adults
  • Couples Counseling
  • Gender Dysphoria
  • Pregnancy/Prenatal/Postpartum
  • Birth Trauma
  • Relational/Relationship Issues
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Womens’ Issues
Darshana Avila - Erotic Wholeness Coaching
Business Phone:
Oakland, California, 94619
United States of America
Available Sessions:
Provides Virtual Sessions